strengths – Jennifer Pelham, MSW http://sad-knuth-63c4ed.netlify.app/ Corporate Social Worker Specializing in Employee Engagement, Change Readiness, and Organizational Development Tue, 03 Mar 2020 23:51:00 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.13 Doing what I love – facilitating collaboration and communication /2017/03/09/doing-what-i-love-facilitating-collaboration-and-communication/ /2017/03/09/doing-what-i-love-facilitating-collaboration-and-communication/#respond Thu, 09 Mar 2017 01:44:14 +0000 /?p=192 I recently had the awesome opportunity to facilitate a collaboration / communications strategy workshop with the paid staff at my church, Mosaic Bay, in Albany, CA. A small team of three, members took turns sharing what their top strengths (from Gallup StrengthsFinder) mean to them, then gave feedback about how they see each others’ strengths show up in the workplace.

After defining what success looks like, they focused on using their strengths to evolve the work they are doing to increase community outreach through communications and marketing strategy and tactics. Each member highlighted how they use their strengths to support the success of the team and their goals. The team discussed how their strengths work together in relation to their roles and discovered how to best collaborate as a cohesive team.

Using the principles from my friend, Maureen Monte’s book, “Destination Unstoppable,” I led the team through an exercise to name their formal and “human” roles on the team allowing them to discover how they can work together and best support each other to reach their definition of success. We also did an exercise to highlight what they want to start, stop and continue doing in the various communications tactics they are currently using.  

Sometimes we all need to be reminded that it starts with us — if teams want to communicate effectively to stakeholders, we first need to communicate well with each other. Then we can focus on the goal of a stronger external message. 

It’s exciting to experience a team collectively strategizing and using their strengths to increase effectiveness. I am thankful for this opportunity!

Here’s what the team had to say about the workshop: 

 Jennifer’s passion for our team finding their sweet spot took me by surprise. What I expected to be a routine meeting turned into a workshop on listening well, being heard, and encouraging people to find their voice. In a subtle and curiously positive way, Jennifer rebuked our team for not playing to our strengths. Her leadership was challenging, encouraging, and left us better connected and more engaged for the projects in front of us. Personally, as the leader of our organization, Jennifer reminded me of just how important it is to understand your strengths and the strengths of those around me.  

— Kevin Knox, Lead Pastor 

Jennifer sat down with us and as a team and individually, reviewed our strengths and weaknesses. She had a series of general questions as well as position specific questions for us to answer. As we answered the questions, she would highlight different things from our answers that stood out to her and had us expound on them. After hearing from each of us, she would reiterate what she heard and then give us suggestions and pointers on how we could do our job better, more efficiently and work cohesively as a team.  

She was well prepared and I was personally impressed with the ideas she invited us to implement by only being with us a few hours. Jennifer had helpful plans and resources to elevate our work potential. If your team needs to be refreshed or perhaps needs new perspective, Jennifer will work diligently to make sure your time spent is productive and specific to your task at hand. And she makes it fun too!  

— Dorynda Venable, Director of Operations 

Being on a staff of three can have its advantages and disadvantages. One advantage is that we know each other well. The disadvantage is that we know each other well. When Jennifer came in to lead us in a strengths and communications workshop it helped us to see and hear things in a new way. Like I said, we know each other well and often have seen each other from the same vantage point. It was like having a fresh new set of eyes and perspective. It was awesome!  

Jennifer served the purpose as a facilitator, teacher, sounding board, therapist, and coach. She thrives in this position and it shows in her enthusiasm and dedication to leading us. I’ve worked with many people and Jennifer has such a gift of bringing clarity of purpose, direction and execution for a group.  To see someone work in their area of strength is such an inspiring sight to behold. This is definitely Jennifer’s strength! 

— Jeanne Wong, Connections Pastor 

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My top strengths and talent profile /2016/05/16/my-top-strengths-and-talent-profile/ /2016/05/16/my-top-strengths-and-talent-profile/#respond Mon, 16 May 2016 22:33:37 +0000 /?p=123 Several years ago I completed the Gallup StrengthsFinder assessment, then worked with Maureen Monte, a Success Architect and author of Destination Unstoppable, who is a certified strengths coach and friend, to better understand the results and realize a plan to grow my strengths, personally and professionally.

She also led me through a challenging exercise to develop a strengths and talent profile. The process forced me to think more deeply than I had before about what motivates me, things that I love to do, things that frustrate me, how I measure myself and how I want my colleagues to see me.

I am glad I participated in this practice as it helps me better define myself and articulate and remember my strengths in a tangible way so I’m more engaged and productive. Additionally, it comes in handy with new managers — I give them my profile so they can immediately see a clear picture of my strengths and talents.

Every so often I review my profile to ensure it’s up to date and finally decided it was time to share publicly; so, without further ado… my top strengths are:

  1. Woo – winning others over, breaking the ice, making people feel comfortable, keeping the conversation going in a group. I use this strength to help teams work together more effectively.
  2. Includer – making sure team members feel involved and are participating. I use this strength to make sure everyone is heard.
  3. Arranger – organizing, recognizing others strengths and coordinating responsibilities, seeing the big picture, planning. I use this strength to keep others organized and on track.
  4. Communication – telling a story, helping people understand what’s going on and making connections. I use this strength to influence others by helping them see the big picture and recognize connections among one another.
  5. Connectedness – ensuring that people know what’s going on and can see the big picture. I use this strength to help others recognize common connections that contribute to the overall success of the team.

I am most motivated by:

  • Meeting new people and seeing where we connect; building relationships and mutual trust to help us succeed.
  • Telling a story or presenting in an engaging way while communicating with impact and influencing people to make a change.
  • Helping others – whether it be learn something new or see the big picture – so they are more effective and productive.
  • Harnessing other people’s passion and creativity to help individual and team success.

3 things I love to do

  1. Collaborating with others about our ideas to inspire change while also bridging gaps.
  2. Spending time getting to know people; listening; and seeing their vulnerability; creating a safe place for all to share their talents.
  3. Organizing large events and projects and focusing on the employee experience; working in big teams to achieve results.

3 things that frustrate me

  1. When I get the impression that people don’t trust I will get the work done and done well.
  2. When people are left out – anything to do with exclusivity. No one is served by excluding the talents of others.
  3. When I feel I am not being valued or challenged.

Professional Performance – how I measure myself and how I want my colleagues to see me

  • Creating change and positive impact by being easy to work with, collaborative, responsible, friendly, creative, out-of-the-box, positive, respectful.
  • Demonstrating my sense of responsibility and becoming a trusted advisor. I am good at keeping up with or arranging my work priorities – I have an internal checklist. I work very well with deadlines. And I am a team player – I can see other people’s strengths and know how to harness them.
  • Leading by example through cultivating my natural abilities. I’m particularly adept at leading in crisis situations and helping others navigate difficult waters. This comes in useful when I’m part of a team.
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